If you’re taking male enhancement products, chances are you’re getting real orgasms out of your partner. And multiple ones as well. But this article in AskMen got us intrigued – How do you know when you’re getting a fake orgasm? According to the recently published National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 85% of men said that their partner had experienced an orgasm during their most recent sexual event, while only 64% of women reported actually having had an orgasm.

There are reasons for fakers out there. According to the article, “life gets in the way: stress, depression, anxiety, body image, performance anxiety, sleep deprivation, feeling rushed (women take, on average, 10 to 30 minutes to orgasm) — all interfere with orgasm. So sometimes women fake it.”

The best way to tell if a woman is faking orgasms is to know how to recognize the real thing. Signs of arousal become visible throughout the process of sexual response, particularly during the pre-orgasm phase, including sweaty hands, sounds, wet vagina, and other “obvious” signs.

While many women can duplicate the characteristics of orgasm, including the contractions of the PC muscles, it’s unlikely she could manufacture 8 to 10 of these contractions in less than 20 seconds. Seriously? All that work just to fake it? Doubtful. In truth, most women needn’t bother portraying a convincing facsimile of the real thing. It’s the screamers and the thrashers who are very often the fakers.

Our advice? Get some male enhancement and aim for the real orgasm. Believe me, it’s worth the time and energy to have a satisfied partner.